What you see sometimes is not always what it seems to be. The sayings goes “beauty is skin deep” and if you are all muscled up, you could be just looking for someone to hustle. Is “Love really blind,” is “Love really in the eyes of the beholder.” Sometimes, you want a thing so bad that you overlook some areas.
The story of a woman searching for love in the wrong place is not rear, unexpectedly, and unusual, but not out of order, it does occur. If a man who seems to be Mr. Right out of nowhere touches the heart of your emotions. Blinded by the physical attraction was the means of connection, However, there was another person inside his body, with a different intention than what you had in mind. What would be your reaction?
The eyes of the Lord see everything and everyone. To make a connection between two people, you must past the crossroad of attraction. This is where you determine whether it’s internal or superficial.
What a tangled web we weave when we find the one we love inside the one we adore. Is that person in your bed the one that you think he/she is?
Two people come together and make one flesh. A man and a woman join together for many reasons. Communication and interaction can lead to magic in the air that is not easily forgotten. Some say they see stars and are taken into a new atmosphere when intercourse occurs. But do you really know who the person on the receiving/accepting end is?
How important is relationship to you? What would it take for you to be happy, concerning someone you intend to spend the rest of your life with? Would money do it? Would good looks do it? How about a great career—would that do it? Maybe you are just looking for a good man to treat you like a lady, the way a lady is supposed to be treated. Then again, maybe it’s not a good man you are looking for. Maybe it’s just a lady, someone that would support you and be by your side.
During the Beginning of time when there was just a man and women alone in a Garden, one might wonder if intercourse was applicable to that relationship? Did they advertise and publicize their sexual figure? How about selling their pleasure, there were no other persons? They did not actively publicize their private parts.
The questions one might ask is: how did intercourse become sex? How did making love turn to, you know what I mean?
We all heard the story about Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, All alone, this meant that the lights was always off at night, which makes it more romantic and tempting to have intercourse, with no one to answer to, (well we know of course God was there) but just the idea to wander freely, back and forth naked, did they get carried away having intercourse, each and everywhere, like we do? Would you?
Carl Mathis, author of Intercourse - Do you really know the person sleeping in your bed
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Friday, December 2, 2011
Ten Commandments For Dating
DATING-TEN COMMANDMENTS
1 Thou Shalt Not worship the other person.
2 Thou Shalt Not place the other person above you
3. Thou shalt Not miss use your authority
4. Thou shalt Not let thyself go.
5. Honor and respect the other person.
6. Thou shalt Not kill the conversation with self.
7.Do not commit to giving in to temptation .
8. Do not steal all the time
9. Do Not lie about your past.
10. Do Not covet if the answer is no
Book titled "Intercourse - Do You Really Know The Person Sleeping in Your Bed?
Available on Kindle/Nook and paperback
1 Thou Shalt Not worship the other person.
2 Thou Shalt Not place the other person above you
3. Thou shalt Not miss use your authority
4. Thou shalt Not let thyself go.
5. Honor and respect the other person.
6. Thou shalt Not kill the conversation with self.
7.Do not commit to giving in to temptation .
8. Do not steal all the time
9. Do Not lie about your past.
10. Do Not covet if the answer is no
Book titled "Intercourse - Do You Really Know The Person Sleeping in Your Bed?
Available on Kindle/Nook and paperback
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
RULES OF ENGAGEMENT
The desire of doing something starts in the mind long before that actual action occurs. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander. (Matthew 15:19-20) However, all sexual desire must be directed only towards the spouse and not to another person, whether they are real or imaginary.
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According to the Bible, God Himself designed the sexual intimacy and implanted it into the desires of the human’s body. Intercourse is a blessing and enjoyment given to us by God. However, the Bible has a strong firm in its teaching that intercourse is to be limited to marriage between a man and a woman, when the two is committed to each other.
The scriptures explains, having an intimacy outside of marriage are totally wrong, this type of act can get a person emotions so heightened that it can break down the defense and allow un Godly desire to manifest.
Because the Scripture did not specifically say, thou shalt not passionately kiss, or thou shalt not engage in pleasurable touching unless married, in order for it to be conflicting to God’s words. Many are overlooking the temptation which could lead to intercourse.
There are many passages that clearly explain this type of behavior. For example, Now flee from youthful lusts, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart (2 Tim. 2:22). This is a warning that flirting with temptation is dangerous to the righteous. The correct response for someone who care about each other and about fulfilling the will of God in there life, is to stay as for away as possible from lustful temptation. This is a command in Scripture.
Passionately kissing and pleasurable touching is sexual and is a part of the sexual relationship of intimacy called foreplay. Talking about the beauty of sexual act and how it can be that very action which protects adultery, According to Proverbs 5:18-20, the writer writes, Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth. As a loving hind and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love. For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an adulteress, And embrace the bosom of a foreigner.
But then, this is interesting, the next couple of scriptures follow with, For the ways of a man are before the eyes of the Lord, And He watches all his paths. His own iniquities will capture the wicked, And he will be held with the cords of his sin (Prov. 5:21-22).
I hopped you getting the picture by now, all these fluting and touching is sin apart from the marriage bond. You could try all you want to rationalize and come up with explanation right and wrong and how individual people should behave and avoiding temptation, but God not only sees all we do and think, but He clearly explain that such ridiculous behavior has its consequences.
Don’t you know that foreplay is designed to arouse sexual desire in preparation for intercourse? This type of behavior could get out of hand. Don’t put yourself in the position to wonder why did you sleep with that person and put your relationship in jeopardy. Plus this is to be saved for marriage. Don’t you agree? _______
Here what Jesus said about this, if a man even looks on a woman with a view to fornication, it is the same as committing the act already? Doing this outside of marriage shows that your primary focus is sexual and not a spiritual relationship in which you get to know the other person and are concerned about what is best for them. Here what the scripture said,
Finally then, brethren, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that, as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to walk and please God (just as you actually do walk), that you may excel still more. For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God; and that no man transgress and defraud his brother in the matter because the Lord is the avenger in all these things, just as we also told you before and solemnly warned you. For God has not called us for the purpose of impurity, but in sanctification. Consequently, he who rejects this is not rejecting man but the God who gives His Holy Spirit to you. (Thessalonians 4:1-8.)
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Available at http://amzn.to/ndtm7G
Foreplay http://amzn.to/ndtm7G
According to the Bible, God Himself designed the sexual intimacy and implanted it into the desires of the human’s body. Intercourse is a blessing and enjoyment given to us by God. However, the Bible has a strong firm in its teaching that intercourse is to be limited to marriage between a man and a woman, when the two is committed to each other.
The scriptures explains, having an intimacy outside of marriage are totally wrong, this type of act can get a person emotions so heightened that it can break down the defense and allow un Godly desire to manifest.
Because the Scripture did not specifically say, thou shalt not passionately kiss, or thou shalt not engage in pleasurable touching unless married, in order for it to be conflicting to God’s words. Many are overlooking the temptation which could lead to intercourse.
There are many passages that clearly explain this type of behavior. For example, Now flee from youthful lusts, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart (2 Tim. 2:22). This is a warning that flirting with temptation is dangerous to the righteous. The correct response for someone who care about each other and about fulfilling the will of God in there life, is to stay as for away as possible from lustful temptation. This is a command in Scripture.
Passionately kissing and pleasurable touching is sexual and is a part of the sexual relationship of intimacy called foreplay. Talking about the beauty of sexual act and how it can be that very action which protects adultery, According to Proverbs 5:18-20, the writer writes, Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth. As a loving hind and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love. For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an adulteress, And embrace the bosom of a foreigner.
But then, this is interesting, the next couple of scriptures follow with, For the ways of a man are before the eyes of the Lord, And He watches all his paths. His own iniquities will capture the wicked, And he will be held with the cords of his sin (Prov. 5:21-22).
I hopped you getting the picture by now, all these fluting and touching is sin apart from the marriage bond. You could try all you want to rationalize and come up with explanation right and wrong and how individual people should behave and avoiding temptation, but God not only sees all we do and think, but He clearly explain that such ridiculous behavior has its consequences.
Don’t you know that foreplay is designed to arouse sexual desire in preparation for intercourse? This type of behavior could get out of hand. Don’t put yourself in the position to wonder why did you sleep with that person and put your relationship in jeopardy. Plus this is to be saved for marriage. Don’t you agree? _______
Here what Jesus said about this, if a man even looks on a woman with a view to fornication, it is the same as committing the act already? Doing this outside of marriage shows that your primary focus is sexual and not a spiritual relationship in which you get to know the other person and are concerned about what is best for them. Here what the scripture said,
Finally then, brethren, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that, as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to walk and please God (just as you actually do walk), that you may excel still more. For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God; and that no man transgress and defraud his brother in the matter because the Lord is the avenger in all these things, just as we also told you before and solemnly warned you. For God has not called us for the purpose of impurity, but in sanctification. Consequently, he who rejects this is not rejecting man but the God who gives His Holy Spirit to you. (Thessalonians 4:1-8.)
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Available at http://amzn.to/ndtm7G
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
WHAT IS INTERCOURSE?
So, what is intercourse, and its significance? It’s an interaction, the combined or reciprocal action of two or more things that have an effect on each other and work together.
There are several methods within sexual intercourse, created by the enemy, and then adapted by the human race to satisfy lustful appetites.
However, God created the vaginal concept to be the only method to produce life, (Reference chapter #5) this is when a male’s penis is inserted into a female’s vagina. This procedure is the correct way for a man and a woman to be connected and produce another life being.
So the question is whether it’s possible to interact with the Great God Almighty?
God created a male and a female for a specific reason and purpose: there is no other way to replenish the earth. Inside the female’s body God put a seal; this seal is symbolic of a bordered crossing. Crossing this border enable a connection and ignite a fuse to release life to come into this world.
In other words intercourse has to be done, with the fertilization from sperm to an egg, that’s the only time life from that holding pen inside the woman womb is allowed to come out, and it’s very sensitive, even for the smartest human minds. You must understand that having intercourse is a godly thing, but the enemy took it and made it into a business for a way to explode the beautiful creation of the female/male figure. So,
Men: be very careful when you approach the border crossing, (the seal inside a woman) because if that seal is broken, life as you know it will never be the same. You are damaging the future plans of that woman if the seal is broken at the wrong time. God created you as the dominate figure, why not control your hormones and put your lust into subjection for the woman sake?
Woman: you are so beautiful and well sculptured by the hand of God, you beauty could almost hypnotize most men, God gave you honey for your spouse, and sugar to sweeten him when he is better, why would you rowing yourself by making your private place public? Why would you give away your precious ointment to someone who would not treasure it? Is there any amount of money worth your precious pearl?
Did you not know this pearl is a rear commodity that cannot be sold? Did your mother ever teach you to hold on to this pearl for the right moment? Did your father ever say to you, use force if it’s necessary to protect your pearl?
This is why God put a seal (bloodline) that separates life from life. Tampering with this seal will allow life to come out premature. So be very careful not to prematurely allow life to come out before it’s time.
In other words, having intercourse before the appropriate time will temper with God plans. Are you up for the challenge?
If life comes out before its time, in other words if you have a child/children before the set time, you have to rearrange and adjust your life, which could be difficult. This is where many problems and situations occur. You then have to put the child in the forefront to have the care it would need, which you may not be prepared for. This is a great responsibility to handle, so you want to be ready when it happens. Keep in mind that life itself may not be what it seems to be.
Let’s look at the intent of God, concerning intercourse. Go to the next chapter at http://amzn.to/ndtm7G Recommended book to learn about intercourse, http://amzn.to/ndtm7G
http://www.carlmathis.com
There are several methods within sexual intercourse, created by the enemy, and then adapted by the human race to satisfy lustful appetites.
However, God created the vaginal concept to be the only method to produce life, (Reference chapter #5) this is when a male’s penis is inserted into a female’s vagina. This procedure is the correct way for a man and a woman to be connected and produce another life being.
So the question is whether it’s possible to interact with the Great God Almighty?
God created a male and a female for a specific reason and purpose: there is no other way to replenish the earth. Inside the female’s body God put a seal; this seal is symbolic of a bordered crossing. Crossing this border enable a connection and ignite a fuse to release life to come into this world.
In other words intercourse has to be done, with the fertilization from sperm to an egg, that’s the only time life from that holding pen inside the woman womb is allowed to come out, and it’s very sensitive, even for the smartest human minds. You must understand that having intercourse is a godly thing, but the enemy took it and made it into a business for a way to explode the beautiful creation of the female/male figure. So,
Men: be very careful when you approach the border crossing, (the seal inside a woman) because if that seal is broken, life as you know it will never be the same. You are damaging the future plans of that woman if the seal is broken at the wrong time. God created you as the dominate figure, why not control your hormones and put your lust into subjection for the woman sake?
Woman: you are so beautiful and well sculptured by the hand of God, you beauty could almost hypnotize most men, God gave you honey for your spouse, and sugar to sweeten him when he is better, why would you rowing yourself by making your private place public? Why would you give away your precious ointment to someone who would not treasure it? Is there any amount of money worth your precious pearl?
Did you not know this pearl is a rear commodity that cannot be sold? Did your mother ever teach you to hold on to this pearl for the right moment? Did your father ever say to you, use force if it’s necessary to protect your pearl?
This is why God put a seal (bloodline) that separates life from life. Tampering with this seal will allow life to come out premature. So be very careful not to prematurely allow life to come out before it’s time.
In other words, having intercourse before the appropriate time will temper with God plans. Are you up for the challenge?
If life comes out before its time, in other words if you have a child/children before the set time, you have to rearrange and adjust your life, which could be difficult. This is where many problems and situations occur. You then have to put the child in the forefront to have the care it would need, which you may not be prepared for. This is a great responsibility to handle, so you want to be ready when it happens. Keep in mind that life itself may not be what it seems to be.
Let’s look at the intent of God, concerning intercourse. Go to the next chapter at http://amzn.to/ndtm7G Recommended book to learn about intercourse, http://amzn.to/ndtm7G
http://www.carlmathis.com
Saturday, September 3, 2011
How did Intercourse Become Sex?
http://youtu.be/RnQ5pmdJ_Xs
During the Beginning of time there was just a man and women alone in a Garden, one might wonder if intercourse was applicable to that relationship? Did they advertise and publicize their sexual figure? How about selling their pleasure, there were no other persons? They did not actively publicize their private parts.
The questions one might ask is: how did intercourse become sex? How did making love turn to, you know what?
All alone Adam and Eve in this dark place, this meant that the lights was always off, which makes it more romantic and tempting to have intercourse, with no one to answer to, (well we know of course God was there) but just the idea to wander freely, back and forth naked, did they get carried away having intercourse, each and everywhere, like we do? Would you?
http://youtu.be/RnQ5pmdJ_Xs
"INTERCOURSE"
Release on December 2, 2011
Go to http://www.carlmathis.com and get the free e-book
During the Beginning of time there was just a man and women alone in a Garden, one might wonder if intercourse was applicable to that relationship? Did they advertise and publicize their sexual figure? How about selling their pleasure, there were no other persons? They did not actively publicize their private parts.
The questions one might ask is: how did intercourse become sex? How did making love turn to, you know what?
All alone Adam and Eve in this dark place, this meant that the lights was always off, which makes it more romantic and tempting to have intercourse, with no one to answer to, (well we know of course God was there) but just the idea to wander freely, back and forth naked, did they get carried away having intercourse, each and everywhere, like we do? Would you?
http://youtu.be/RnQ5pmdJ_Xs
"INTERCOURSE"
Release on December 2, 2011
Go to http://www.carlmathis.com and get the free e-book
Thursday, July 28, 2011
IT WILL HAUNT YOU IN FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS (Pastor Greg Baker) Sex before and outside of marriage.
This I can practically guarantee. I don’t have the time to recount the number of marriages that struggle because of some indiscretion before or outside of the marriage. If you had to deal with the problems I have, you’d feel the same way I do about this entire issue.
Regret, depression, anxiety, abortion, nightmares, suspicion, trust issues, child support, adultery, anger, bitterness, rape, health issues, troubled children, rebellious teenagers using the past against the parent, teenage pregnancies, divorce, cancer, Aids, pornography, addictions, birth defects, and many, many more are all issues that I can often trace back to sex before or outside of marriage.
I’ve dealt with all of the above things and more in counseling broken marriages. Almost always, I can trace the root of the issue to sex before or outside of the marriage.
I can’t honestly think of a marriage that hasn’t been haunted by sexual misconduct before the marriage. And there are many examples of this. A woman who was sexually molested or abused as a child will find it difficult to trust men in general and her husband in particular. That’s not her fault, but it is something she will live with. A man that has had sex with many different women struggles to convince his wife that he loves her and only her and he constantly deals with his memories and even dreams. His protestations of love are often viewed as cheap and insufficient.
I could go on and on and on about the problems that are created because of sex before or outside of marriage. Lifelong relationships always suffer as a result.
Pastor Greg Baker
For the FREE E-Book go to http://www.carlmathis.com
Regret, depression, anxiety, abortion, nightmares, suspicion, trust issues, child support, adultery, anger, bitterness, rape, health issues, troubled children, rebellious teenagers using the past against the parent, teenage pregnancies, divorce, cancer, Aids, pornography, addictions, birth defects, and many, many more are all issues that I can often trace back to sex before or outside of marriage.
I’ve dealt with all of the above things and more in counseling broken marriages. Almost always, I can trace the root of the issue to sex before or outside of the marriage.
I can’t honestly think of a marriage that hasn’t been haunted by sexual misconduct before the marriage. And there are many examples of this. A woman who was sexually molested or abused as a child will find it difficult to trust men in general and her husband in particular. That’s not her fault, but it is something she will live with. A man that has had sex with many different women struggles to convince his wife that he loves her and only her and he constantly deals with his memories and even dreams. His protestations of love are often viewed as cheap and insufficient.
I could go on and on and on about the problems that are created because of sex before or outside of marriage. Lifelong relationships always suffer as a result.
Pastor Greg Baker
For the FREE E-Book go to http://www.carlmathis.com
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
The Dangers of Sex Before and Outside of Marriage (Pastor Greg Baker)
Simply because something has become more acceptable to society as a whole doesn’t make it either right or without consequences. There are very real dangers that are associated with sex before and outside of marriage. I’m not looking for people to agree or disagree, but rather I’m looking to make some very sound, very logical, very clear presentations of the dangers.
IT IS THE NUMBER ONE SOURCE OF STDS
IT MAKES HAVING A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP MORE DIFFICULT
IT MAKES SEX, AS AN EXPRESSION OF LOVE, EMPTY
IT ROBS YOU OF SELF WORTH
IT WILL HAUNT YOU IN FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS
FOR THE CHRISTIAN
Naturally, God discourages sex before marriage. I read once where someone argued that God never discouraged such a thing, but even a casual reading of the Scriptures will dissuade you from that notion.
Hebrews 13:4 – Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
1 Corinthians 7:1-2 – Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman (sexually). Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
Sex, in God’s eyes, is more than a physical act. It is a spiritual experience meant to illustrate to us the joy of being in the presence of the Lord. Interestingly enough, fornication is often depicted as idolatry.
Deuteronomy 31:16 And the LORD said unto Moses, Behold, thou shalt sleep with thy fathers; and this people will rise up, and go a whoring after the gods of the strangers of the land, whither they go to be among them, and will forsake me, and break my covenant which I have made with them.
2 Chronicles 21:11 Moreover he made high places in the mountains of Judah, and caused the inhabitants of Jerusalem to commit fornication, and compelled Judah thereto.
God sees sex as a demonstration of a commitment to one person. Anything else is seen as fornication, whoring, adultery, and other sexual perversions. By keeping our sexual activities limited to one person in the bonds of marriage, we reinforce our own Christian bond and union with Jesus Christ. Marriage itself is compared scripturally to salvation in Jesus Christ
(Ephesians 5:21-33). Marriage is a microcosm, a means by which we understand God better, of the relationship we have between Jesus Christ.
Marriage is a wonderful picture of the security we have in Jesus Christ for salvation. Sex is a wonderful, spiritual, picture of the joy we have in Christ. It is holy, right, and honorable in marriage.
No matter if you are a Christian or not, there are plenty of dangers to experiencing sexual activity outside of the marriage. The dangers are real. They do exist. And they do cause more problems than you’d ever really believe.
Again, if you could sit in my seat and listen to the broken, struggling, and desperate lives that result from this, you’d see why I hold these opinions.
Pastor Greg Baker
Go here and the new E-Book "INTERCOURSE' for FREE http://www.carlmathis.com
IT IS THE NUMBER ONE SOURCE OF STDS
IT MAKES HAVING A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP MORE DIFFICULT
IT MAKES SEX, AS AN EXPRESSION OF LOVE, EMPTY
IT ROBS YOU OF SELF WORTH
IT WILL HAUNT YOU IN FUTURE RELATIONSHIPS
FOR THE CHRISTIAN
Naturally, God discourages sex before marriage. I read once where someone argued that God never discouraged such a thing, but even a casual reading of the Scriptures will dissuade you from that notion.
Hebrews 13:4 – Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
1 Corinthians 7:1-2 – Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman (sexually). Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
Sex, in God’s eyes, is more than a physical act. It is a spiritual experience meant to illustrate to us the joy of being in the presence of the Lord. Interestingly enough, fornication is often depicted as idolatry.
Deuteronomy 31:16 And the LORD said unto Moses, Behold, thou shalt sleep with thy fathers; and this people will rise up, and go a whoring after the gods of the strangers of the land, whither they go to be among them, and will forsake me, and break my covenant which I have made with them.
2 Chronicles 21:11 Moreover he made high places in the mountains of Judah, and caused the inhabitants of Jerusalem to commit fornication, and compelled Judah thereto.
God sees sex as a demonstration of a commitment to one person. Anything else is seen as fornication, whoring, adultery, and other sexual perversions. By keeping our sexual activities limited to one person in the bonds of marriage, we reinforce our own Christian bond and union with Jesus Christ. Marriage itself is compared scripturally to salvation in Jesus Christ
(Ephesians 5:21-33). Marriage is a microcosm, a means by which we understand God better, of the relationship we have between Jesus Christ.
Marriage is a wonderful picture of the security we have in Jesus Christ for salvation. Sex is a wonderful, spiritual, picture of the joy we have in Christ. It is holy, right, and honorable in marriage.
No matter if you are a Christian or not, there are plenty of dangers to experiencing sexual activity outside of the marriage. The dangers are real. They do exist. And they do cause more problems than you’d ever really believe.
Again, if you could sit in my seat and listen to the broken, struggling, and desperate lives that result from this, you’d see why I hold these opinions.
Pastor Greg Baker
Go here and the new E-Book "INTERCOURSE' for FREE http://www.carlmathis.com
Monday, July 25, 2011
“Foreplay: Is it a Sin?”
According to the Bible, God Himself designed the sexual intimacy and implanted it into the desires of the human’s body. Intercourse is a blessing and enjoyment given to us by God. However, the Bible has a strong firm in its teaching that intercourse is to be limited to marriage between a man and a woman, when the two is committed to each other.
The scriptures explains, having an intimacy outside of marriage are totally wrong, this type of act can get a person emotions so heightened that it can break down the defense and allow un Godly desire to manifest. Because the Scripture did not specifically say, thou shalt not passionately kiss, or thou shalt not engage in pleasurable touching unless married, in order for it to be conflicting to God’s words. Many are overlooking the temptation which could lead to intercourse.
There are many passages that clearly explain this type of behavior. For example, Now flee from youthful lusts, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart (2 Tim. 2:22). This is a warning that flirting with temptation is dangerous to the righteous. The correct response for someone who care about each other and about fulfilling the will of God in there life, is to stay as for away as possible from temptation. This is a command in Scripture.
Passionately kissing and pleasurable touching is sexual and is a part of the sexual relationship of intimacy called foreplay. Talking about the beauty of sexual act and how it can be that very action which protects adultery, According to Proverbs 5:18-20, the writer writes, Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth. As a loving hind and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love. For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an adulteress, And embrace the bosom of a foreigner.
But then, this is interesting, the next couple of scriptures follow with, For the ways of a man are before the eyes of the Lord, And He watches all his paths. His own iniquities will capture the wicked, And he will be held with the cords of his sin (Prov. 5:21-22).
I hopped you getting the picture by now, all these fluting and touching is sin apart from the marriage bond. You could try all you want to rationalize and come up with explanation right and wrong and how individual people should behave and avoiding temptation, but God not only sees all we do and think, but He clearly explain that such ridiculous behavior has its consequences.
Don’t you know that foreplay is designed to arouse sexual desire in preparation for intercourse? This type of behavior could get out of hand. Don’t put yourself in the position to wonder why did you sleep with that person and put your relationship in jeopardy. Plus this is to be saved for marriage. Don’t you agree? _______
Here what Jesus said about this, if a man even looks on a woman with a view to fornication, it is the same as committing the act already? Doing this outside of marriage shows that your primary focus is sexual and not a spiritual relationship in which you get to know the other person and are concerned about what is best for them. And the scripture said,
Finally then, brethren, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that, as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to walk and please God (just as you actually do walk), that you may excel still more. For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God; and that no man transgress and defraud his brother in the matter because the Lord is the avenger in all these things, just as we also told you before and solemnly warned you. For God has not called us for the purpose of impurity, but in sanctification. 8 Consequently, he who rejects this is not rejecting man but the God who gives His Holy Spirit to you. (Thessalonians 4:1-8.)
Carl Mathis author of “Intercourse – Do you Really know the person Sleeping in your Be?” Do you want this FREE E-Book go here now http://www.carlmathis.com
The scriptures explains, having an intimacy outside of marriage are totally wrong, this type of act can get a person emotions so heightened that it can break down the defense and allow un Godly desire to manifest. Because the Scripture did not specifically say, thou shalt not passionately kiss, or thou shalt not engage in pleasurable touching unless married, in order for it to be conflicting to God’s words. Many are overlooking the temptation which could lead to intercourse.
There are many passages that clearly explain this type of behavior. For example, Now flee from youthful lusts, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart (2 Tim. 2:22). This is a warning that flirting with temptation is dangerous to the righteous. The correct response for someone who care about each other and about fulfilling the will of God in there life, is to stay as for away as possible from temptation. This is a command in Scripture.
Passionately kissing and pleasurable touching is sexual and is a part of the sexual relationship of intimacy called foreplay. Talking about the beauty of sexual act and how it can be that very action which protects adultery, According to Proverbs 5:18-20, the writer writes, Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth. As a loving hind and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love. For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an adulteress, And embrace the bosom of a foreigner.
But then, this is interesting, the next couple of scriptures follow with, For the ways of a man are before the eyes of the Lord, And He watches all his paths. His own iniquities will capture the wicked, And he will be held with the cords of his sin (Prov. 5:21-22).
I hopped you getting the picture by now, all these fluting and touching is sin apart from the marriage bond. You could try all you want to rationalize and come up with explanation right and wrong and how individual people should behave and avoiding temptation, but God not only sees all we do and think, but He clearly explain that such ridiculous behavior has its consequences.
Don’t you know that foreplay is designed to arouse sexual desire in preparation for intercourse? This type of behavior could get out of hand. Don’t put yourself in the position to wonder why did you sleep with that person and put your relationship in jeopardy. Plus this is to be saved for marriage. Don’t you agree? _______
Here what Jesus said about this, if a man even looks on a woman with a view to fornication, it is the same as committing the act already? Doing this outside of marriage shows that your primary focus is sexual and not a spiritual relationship in which you get to know the other person and are concerned about what is best for them. And the scripture said,
Finally then, brethren, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that, as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to walk and please God (just as you actually do walk), that you may excel still more. For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God; and that no man transgress and defraud his brother in the matter because the Lord is the avenger in all these things, just as we also told you before and solemnly warned you. For God has not called us for the purpose of impurity, but in sanctification. 8 Consequently, he who rejects this is not rejecting man but the God who gives His Holy Spirit to you. (Thessalonians 4:1-8.)
Carl Mathis author of “Intercourse – Do you Really know the person Sleeping in your Be?” Do you want this FREE E-Book go here now http://www.carlmathis.com
Saturday, July 23, 2011
DO YOU NEED "INTERCOURSE" TO BE COMPLETE?
Some people believe that their life is lacking or incomplete because of the absence of being sexually involved.
And there are some that felt God has given them so many blessings in some areas, but when it comes to blessing them with their mate, God has somehow forgotten or forsaken them. Thus, the struggle to hold on being abstinent, intensify.
For this reason, many respond hastily by going out and getting somebody, anybody, just to say they have someone to call their own. And when they have “INTERCOURSE” then they wonder, what I have done.
There was no engagement ring, no commitment, and then the question:
Do I really know the person I just sleep with?
Believers must realize that your life is complete, right now, even in the absence of a sexual relationship.
Get the FREE E-BOOK by going to http://www.carlmathis.com
Intercourse- Do you Really know the Person Sleeping in your Bed?
And there are some that felt God has given them so many blessings in some areas, but when it comes to blessing them with their mate, God has somehow forgotten or forsaken them. Thus, the struggle to hold on being abstinent, intensify.
For this reason, many respond hastily by going out and getting somebody, anybody, just to say they have someone to call their own. And when they have “INTERCOURSE” then they wonder, what I have done.
There was no engagement ring, no commitment, and then the question:
Do I really know the person I just sleep with?
Believers must realize that your life is complete, right now, even in the absence of a sexual relationship.
Get the FREE E-BOOK by going to http://www.carlmathis.com
Intercourse- Do you Really know the Person Sleeping in your Bed?
Monday, July 11, 2011
Many people say that the man is the one who initiates this desire in wanting to take the relationship to another level in the form of having intercourse, but is this true, what do you think, Is this true or not. (Yes____ No____)
When you involved with someone of the opposite sex, in a dating relationship, and feelings growing stronger and stronger to the point of unbearable, the two involved come to a decision to prove their sincere love for one another. Many people say that the man is the one who initiates this desire in wanting to take the relationship to another level in the form of having intercourse, but is this true, what do you think, Is this true or not. (Yes____ No____)
If a modern day Boaz comes knocking on your door seeking your hand in marriage, would you? I am not saying it’s a wise thing that you spend forever getting to know a person before accepting a proposal, but what if you know without a shadow of dough he was the right person. How about the beautiful Bathsheba, she was beautiful enough to seduce Solomon the wisest man in the Bible. Would you say (yes ____ No ___)
One reason so many marriages are floundering is because the husbands have not prepared themselves spiritually for their task. Some fellows could not think about anything but sex during their relationship. And if it wasn’t sex, it was cars or sports. They spent little or no time studying the Word, memorizing it, discovering how it applied to their lives, and learning from it what their responsibilities as Christian husbands and fathers would be. The Lord was not part of their daily living.
INTERCOURSE....NEW BOOK COMING IN DECEMBER 2011
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If a modern day Boaz comes knocking on your door seeking your hand in marriage, would you? I am not saying it’s a wise thing that you spend forever getting to know a person before accepting a proposal, but what if you know without a shadow of dough he was the right person. How about the beautiful Bathsheba, she was beautiful enough to seduce Solomon the wisest man in the Bible. Would you say (yes ____ No ___)
One reason so many marriages are floundering is because the husbands have not prepared themselves spiritually for their task. Some fellows could not think about anything but sex during their relationship. And if it wasn’t sex, it was cars or sports. They spent little or no time studying the Word, memorizing it, discovering how it applied to their lives, and learning from it what their responsibilities as Christian husbands and fathers would be. The Lord was not part of their daily living.
INTERCOURSE....NEW BOOK COMING IN DECEMBER 2011
"PRE-ORDER YOU COPY NOW AND GET THE E-BOOK VERSION FREE"
For more info and to pre-order, go to http://www.carlmathis.com
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Sexual Intercourse, doing it the correct way: Do you know how to?
He always knows the right words to say at the right moment to get me all rows up, as if I was not ready already.
Suddenly there was a knock at the door, he said relax honey, I will get it. It was room service he ordered.
Champaign on ice with fruits and French vanilla ice- cream, he knows I love French vanilla.
We made a toasted to new beginning and vow to stay together until death do us path.
He them begin to feed me fruits and I do likewise while we drink Champaign. What a site to see, lovers eating ice-cream in the midnight hour with the light down low.
I slowly begin to take part of my lingerie off and lie slowly on the bed, he then draw close to me and begin to kiss me in a romantic way. If my blood was not running, it was running now.
We kissed and cursed while rolling around on the bed for a while. He looks into my eyes and rolls his finger through my long black hair. I felt like I was zap with a laser when he touches me.
It finally happened, penetration has occurred, Awa, what a feeling
New book by Carl Mathis titled INTERCOURSE - Do You Know The Person Sleeping in Your Bed?
"COMING THIS DECEMBER"
Suddenly there was a knock at the door, he said relax honey, I will get it. It was room service he ordered.
Champaign on ice with fruits and French vanilla ice- cream, he knows I love French vanilla.
We made a toasted to new beginning and vow to stay together until death do us path.
He them begin to feed me fruits and I do likewise while we drink Champaign. What a site to see, lovers eating ice-cream in the midnight hour with the light down low.
I slowly begin to take part of my lingerie off and lie slowly on the bed, he then draw close to me and begin to kiss me in a romantic way. If my blood was not running, it was running now.
We kissed and cursed while rolling around on the bed for a while. He looks into my eyes and rolls his finger through my long black hair. I felt like I was zap with a laser when he touches me.
It finally happened, penetration has occurred, Awa, what a feeling
New book by Carl Mathis titled INTERCOURSE - Do You Know The Person Sleeping in Your Bed?
"COMING THIS DECEMBER"
Saturday, June 4, 2011
SEX OR MAKING LOVE, which is better?
If this is just a part of what would happen when I am with him, I want to be with him always—I want to always keep in contact with him, console him; he means a lot to me. I’m going to stick to this man like white on rice. I’m not going to leave any room for any other woman to make a move, or even attempt to make an offense against my man. I can’t stop them from looking, but they can’t touch. This man belongs to me and only me! I’m a one-man woman; I don’t share, nor do I lend my man.
COMING THIS SUMMER...........GET YOU COPY TODAY
COMING THIS SUMMER...........GET YOU COPY TODAY
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
“INTERCOURSE”
How important is relationship to you? What would it take for you to be happy, concerning someone you intend to spend the rest of your life with? Would money do it? Would good looks do it? How about a great career—would that do it? Maybe you are just looking for a good man to treat you like a lady, the way a lady is supposed to be treated. Then again, maybe it’s not a good man you are looking for. Maybe it’s just a lady, someone that would support you and be by your side. In this short but sweet letter, let’s see if this is what you want out of life. “INTERCOURSE”
COMING……SOON…..THIS SUMMER.
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COMING……SOON…..THIS SUMMER.
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Wednesday, May 18, 2011
Is the person you’re sleeping with really who you think they are?
He’s charming, handsome and debonair. She’s got all the right curves, long pretty hair and a smile to die for. The two of you have intercourse. But who did you sleep with last night? Furthermore, how do you know you’re not pregnant? In this intimate written piece, author Carl Mathis challenges you to not only take a deeper look at your natural relationships, but he asks you to consider intercourse with (....Gust who.....) become pregnant with His baby, and even gift birth! Not only will you know who you had intercourse with, but you’ll know for sure you’re pregnant with purpose from someone who is sure to take care of His responsibility. Is the person you’re sleeping with really who you think they are.
COMING SOON....COMING SOON
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COMING SOON....COMING SOON
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Thursday, May 5, 2011
Passionate Love
Taken from the book “INTERCOURSE”
If you were only there, when we took the midnight walks on the white sandy beach. With the cool breeze blowing on our face, and the water making waves behind us, if felt like we were involved in a romantic motion picture from the big screen. Holding hands and giggling like we were still in our youth. We played games like throwing water at each other, kissing, hugging and having a good time. If he had any faults, I couldn’t tell. God had blinded me with love and passion. A real life love story has been played out right before my very eyes, and we are starring in it. It feels good to be the stars in this romantic classic, rather than watching the movie with someone else as the stars. I wish the night could have been longer, but it was time to return to the hotel. We took one last walk on the beach then we left.
We went back to the hotel room and it happened. Our emotions took over—we made passionate love, ………….(COMING SOON)…………….. Nine months later, here comes a baby boy, and that’s when news began to spread. YOU HAVE TO READ IT TO BELIEVE IT.
Get information about ordering you copy before it release at info@carlmathis.com.
Carl Mathis author of Life is what you make it – seven steps to moving forward.
Coming soon http://www,carlmathisbooks.com
If you were only there, when we took the midnight walks on the white sandy beach. With the cool breeze blowing on our face, and the water making waves behind us, if felt like we were involved in a romantic motion picture from the big screen. Holding hands and giggling like we were still in our youth. We played games like throwing water at each other, kissing, hugging and having a good time. If he had any faults, I couldn’t tell. God had blinded me with love and passion. A real life love story has been played out right before my very eyes, and we are starring in it. It feels good to be the stars in this romantic classic, rather than watching the movie with someone else as the stars. I wish the night could have been longer, but it was time to return to the hotel. We took one last walk on the beach then we left.
We went back to the hotel room and it happened. Our emotions took over—we made passionate love, ………….(COMING SOON)…………….. Nine months later, here comes a baby boy, and that’s when news began to spread. YOU HAVE TO READ IT TO BELIEVE IT.
Get information about ordering you copy before it release at info@carlmathis.com.
Carl Mathis author of Life is what you make it – seven steps to moving forward.
Coming soon http://www,carlmathisbooks.com
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
DO YOU REALY KNOW THE PERSON SLEEPING IN YOUR BED?
The story of a woman searching for love in the wrong place, unexpectedly, and unusual, but not out of order it occurs. A man who seems to be Mr. Right out of nowhere touches the heart of her emotions. Blinded by the physical attraction was the means of connection, but there was another person inside his body, with a different intention than what she had in mind.
What you see sometimes is not what it seems to be. There is a saying, “Love is blind,” and there is another that says, “Love is in the eyes of the beholder.” Sometimes, you want a thing so bad that you overlook some areas.
The eyes of the Lord see everything and everyone. To make a connection between two people, you must past the crossroad of attraction. This is where you determine whether it’s internal or superficial.
What a tangled web we weave when we find the one we love inside the one we adore. Is that person in your bed the one that you think he is?
COMING SOON....... http://www.Carlmathisbooks.com
Carl Mathis author of life is what you make it - seven steps to moving forward.
What you see sometimes is not what it seems to be. There is a saying, “Love is blind,” and there is another that says, “Love is in the eyes of the beholder.” Sometimes, you want a thing so bad that you overlook some areas.
The eyes of the Lord see everything and everyone. To make a connection between two people, you must past the crossroad of attraction. This is where you determine whether it’s internal or superficial.
What a tangled web we weave when we find the one we love inside the one we adore. Is that person in your bed the one that you think he is?
COMING SOON....... http://www.Carlmathisbooks.com
Carl Mathis author of life is what you make it - seven steps to moving forward.
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