Wednesday, October 19, 2011

RULES OF ENGAGEMENT

The desire of doing something starts in the mind long before that actual action occurs. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander. (Matthew 15:19-20) However, all sexual desire must be directed only towards the spouse and not to another person, whether they are real or imaginary.

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According to the Bible, God Himself designed the sexual intimacy and implanted it into the desires of the human’s body. Intercourse is a blessing and enjoyment given to us by God. However, the Bible has a strong firm in its teaching that intercourse is to be limited to marriage between a man and a woman, when the two is committed to each other.

The scriptures explains, having an intimacy outside of marriage are totally wrong, this type of act can get a person emotions so heightened that it can break down the defense and allow un Godly desire to manifest.

Because the Scripture did not specifically say, thou shalt not passionately kiss, or thou shalt not engage in pleasurable touching unless married, in order for it to be conflicting to God’s words. Many are overlooking the temptation which could lead to intercourse.

There are many passages that clearly explain this type of behavior. For example, Now flee from youthful lusts, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart (2 Tim. 2:22). This is a warning that flirting with temptation is dangerous to the righteous. The correct response for someone who care about each other and about fulfilling the will of God in there life, is to stay as for away as possible from lustful temptation. This is a command in Scripture.
Passionately kissing and pleasurable touching is sexual and is a part of the sexual relationship of intimacy called foreplay. Talking about the beauty of sexual act and how it can be that very action which protects adultery, According to Proverbs 5:18-20, the writer writes, Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth. As a loving hind and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love. For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an adulteress, And embrace the bosom of a foreigner.
But then, this is interesting, the next couple of scriptures follow with, For the ways of a man are before the eyes of the Lord, And He watches all his paths. His own iniquities will capture the wicked, And he will be held with the cords of his sin (Prov. 5:21-22).

I hopped you getting the picture by now, all these fluting and touching is sin apart from the marriage bond. You could try all you want to rationalize and come up with explanation right and wrong and how individual people should behave and avoiding temptation, but God not only sees all we do and think, but He clearly explain that such ridiculous behavior has its consequences.
Don’t you know that foreplay is designed to arouse sexual desire in preparation for intercourse? This type of behavior could get out of hand. Don’t put yourself in the position to wonder why did you sleep with that person and put your relationship in jeopardy. Plus this is to be saved for marriage. Don’t you agree? _______

Here what Jesus said about this, if a man even looks on a woman with a view to fornication, it is the same as committing the act already? Doing this outside of marriage shows that your primary focus is sexual and not a spiritual relationship in which you get to know the other person and are concerned about what is best for them. Here what the scripture said,
Finally then, brethren, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that, as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to walk and please God (just as you actually do walk), that you may excel still more. For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God; and that no man transgress and defraud his brother in the matter because the Lord is the avenger in all these things, just as we also told you before and solemnly warned you. For God has not called us for the purpose of impurity, but in sanctification. Consequently, he who rejects this is not rejecting man but the God who gives His Holy Spirit to you. (Thessalonians 4:1-8.)

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Tuesday, October 11, 2011

WHAT IS INTERCOURSE?

So, what is intercourse, and its significance? It’s an interaction, the combined or reciprocal action of two or more things that have an effect on each other and work together.

There are several methods within sexual intercourse, created by the enemy, and then adapted by the human race to satisfy lustful appetites.

However, God created the vaginal concept to be the only method to produce life, (Reference chapter #5) this is when a male’s penis is inserted into a female’s vagina. This procedure is the correct way for a man and a woman to be connected and produce another life being.

So the question is whether it’s possible to interact with the Great God Almighty?
God created a male and a female for a specific reason and purpose: there is no other way to replenish the earth. Inside the female’s body God put a seal; this seal is symbolic of a bordered crossing. Crossing this border enable a connection and ignite a fuse to release life to come into this world.
In other words intercourse has to be done, with the fertilization from sperm to an egg, that’s the only time life from that holding pen inside the woman womb is allowed to come out, and it’s very sensitive, even for the smartest human minds. You must understand that having intercourse is a godly thing, but the enemy took it and made it into a business for a way to explode the beautiful creation of the female/male figure. So,
Men: be very careful when you approach the border crossing, (the seal inside a woman) because if that seal is broken, life as you know it will never be the same. You are damaging the future plans of that woman if the seal is broken at the wrong time. God created you as the dominate figure, why not control your hormones and put your lust into subjection for the woman sake?

Woman: you are so beautiful and well sculptured by the hand of God, you beauty could almost hypnotize most men, God gave you honey for your spouse, and sugar to sweeten him when he is better, why would you rowing yourself by making your private place public? Why would you give away your precious ointment to someone who would not treasure it? Is there any amount of money worth your precious pearl?

Did you not know this pearl is a rear commodity that cannot be sold? Did your mother ever teach you to hold on to this pearl for the right moment? Did your father ever say to you, use force if it’s necessary to protect your pearl?

This is why God put a seal (bloodline) that separates life from life. Tampering with this seal will allow life to come out premature. So be very careful not to prematurely allow life to come out before it’s time.

In other words, having intercourse before the appropriate time will temper with God plans. Are you up for the challenge?

If life comes out before its time, in other words if you have a child/children before the set time, you have to rearrange and adjust your life, which could be difficult. This is where many problems and situations occur. You then have to put the child in the forefront to have the care it would need, which you may not be prepared for. This is a great responsibility to handle, so you want to be ready when it happens. Keep in mind that life itself may not be what it seems to be.

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