“Foreplay: Is it a Sin?”

According to the Bible, God Himself designed the sexual intimacy and implanted it into the desires of the human’s body. Intercourse is a blessing and enjoyment given to us by God. However, the Bible has a strong firm in its teaching that intercourse is to be limited to marriage between a man and a woman, when the two is committed to each other.
The scriptures explains, having an intimacy outside of marriage are totally wrong, this type of act can get a person emotions so heightened that it can break down the defense and allow un Godly desire to manifest. Because the Scripture did not specifically say, thou shalt not passionately kiss, or thou shalt not engage in pleasurable touching unless married, in order for it to be conflicting to God’s words. Many are overlooking the temptation which could lead to intercourse.
There are many passages that clearly explain this type of behavior. For example, Now flee from youthful lusts, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart (2 Tim. 2:22). This is a warning that flirting with temptation is dangerous to the righteous. The correct response for someone who care about each other and about fulfilling the will of God in there life, is to stay as for away as possible from temptation. This is a command in Scripture.
Passionately kissing and pleasurable touching is sexual and is a part of the sexual relationship of intimacy called foreplay. Talking about the beauty of sexual act and how it can be that very action which protects adultery, According to Proverbs 5:18-20, the writer writes, Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice in the wife of your youth. As a loving hind and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love. For why should you, my son, be exhilarated with an adulteress, And embrace the bosom of a foreigner.
But then, this is interesting, the next couple of scriptures follow with, For the ways of a man are before the eyes of the Lord, And He watches all his paths. His own iniquities will capture the wicked, And he will be held with the cords of his sin (Prov. 5:21-22).
I hopped you getting the picture by now, all these fluting and touching is sin apart from the marriage bond. You could try all you want to rationalize and come up with explanation right and wrong and how individual people should behave and avoiding temptation, but God not only sees all we do and think, but He clearly explain that such ridiculous behavior has its consequences.
Don’t you know that foreplay is designed to arouse sexual desire in preparation for intercourse? This type of behavior could get out of hand. Don’t put yourself in the position to wonder why did you sleep with that person and put your relationship in jeopardy. Plus this is to be saved for marriage. Don’t you agree? _______
Here what Jesus said about this, if a man even looks on a woman with a view to fornication, it is the same as committing the act already? Doing this outside of marriage shows that your primary focus is sexual and not a spiritual relationship in which you get to know the other person and are concerned about what is best for them. And the scripture said,
Finally then, brethren, we request and exhort you in the Lord Jesus, that, as you received from us instruction as to how you ought to walk and please God (just as you actually do walk), that you may excel still more. For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God; and that no man transgress and defraud his brother in the matter because the Lord is the avenger in all these things, just as we also told you before and solemnly warned you. For God has not called us for the purpose of impurity, but in sanctification. 8 Consequently, he who rejects this is not rejecting man but the God who gives His Holy Spirit to you. (Thessalonians 4:1-8.)
Carl Mathis author of “Intercourse – Do you Really know the person Sleeping in your Be?” Do you want this FREE E-Book go here now http://www.carlmathis.com

DO YOU NEED "INTERCOURSE" TO BE COMPLETE?

Some people believe that their life is lacking or incomplete because of the absence of being sexually involved.

And there are some that felt God has given them so many blessings in some areas, but when it comes to blessing them with their mate, God has somehow forgotten or forsaken them. Thus, the struggle to hold on being abstinent, intensify.

For this reason, many respond hastily by going out and getting somebody, anybody, just to say they have someone to call their own. And when they have “INTERCOURSE” then they wonder, what I have done.

There was no engagement ring, no commitment, and then the question:

Do I really know the person I just sleep with?


Believers must realize that your life is complete, right now, even in the absence of a sexual relationship.

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Intercourse- Do you Really know the Person Sleeping in your Bed?

Many people say that the man is the one who initiates this desire in wanting to take the relationship to another level in the form of having intercourse, but is this true, what do you think, Is this true or not. (Yes____ No____)

When you involved with someone of the opposite sex, in a dating relationship, and feelings growing stronger and stronger to the point of unbearable, the two involved come to a decision to prove their sincere love for one another. Many people say that the man is the one who initiates this desire in wanting to take the relationship to another level in the form of having intercourse, but is this true, what do you think, Is this true or not. (Yes____ No____)

If a modern day Boaz comes knocking on your door seeking your hand in marriage, would you? I am not saying it’s a wise thing that you spend forever getting to know a person before accepting a proposal, but what if you know without a shadow of dough he was the right person. How about the beautiful Bathsheba, she was beautiful enough to seduce Solomon the wisest man in the Bible. Would you say (yes ____ No ___)


One reason so many marriages are floundering is because the husbands have not prepared themselves spiritually for their task. Some fellows could not think about anything but sex during their relationship. And if it wasn’t sex, it was cars or sports. They spent little or no time studying the Word, memorizing it, discovering how it applied to their lives, and learning from it what their responsibilities as Christian husbands and fathers would be. The Lord was not part of their daily living.

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Sexual Intercourse, doing it the correct way: Do you know how to?

He always knows the right words to say at the right moment to get me all rows up, as if I was not ready already.


Suddenly there was a knock at the door, he said relax honey, I will get it. It was room service he ordered.


Champaign on ice with fruits and French vanilla ice- cream, he knows I love French vanilla.


We made a toasted to new beginning and vow to stay together until death do us path.


He them begin to feed me fruits and I do likewise while we drink Champaign. What a site to see, lovers eating ice-cream in the midnight hour with the light down low.

I slowly begin to take part of my lingerie off and lie slowly on the bed, he then draw close to me and begin to kiss me in a romantic way. If my blood was not running, it was running now.


We kissed and cursed while rolling around on the bed for a while. He looks into my eyes and rolls his finger through my long black hair. I felt like I was zap with a laser when he touches me.

It finally happened, penetration has occurred, Awa, what a feeling

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